i may be fat..but..you're ugly and i can diet

i may be fat..but..you're ugly and i can diet

the above is quoted frm one of my frenz, and i thought it was like super cool n brilliant. well how we even chance upon this statement was due to ah tim. cuz i was complaining how much of a nuisance he was when he's bombarding my phone with like at least 20 over calls. if you think thats like 'wow'..think further xD he could even call till my mobile goes flat.

i find it so hard to believe that a guy like him could be so so dense in the head. when i finally answered his call, i was already super pissed, tired and fed up with him even. in the end he was like asking me why is it that i dun like him.

"i only treat you as friend." was what i told him. but he didn't get it i guess. cuz he was asking me out again during this good friday..~.~ how wonderful..he persisted even i declined his offer. but well..i told him i'm busy and i just said i dun think i wanna even go cuz i wanna juz rest at home.

but at least i didn't hear anything from him for the past few days *cross my fingers and hope that it stays this way*

to share something interesting (might be true or might be not), one of my ex-colleagues forwarded me this! -- sorry its in chinese =P

3月7日 現代抽像派
宮位:雙魚座 15-17
雙魚座二
變動的水像

在3月7日出生的人相當復雜,常常活在自己抽像的世界中。他們生平最大的挑戰,就是建構這樣的抽像世界。而越可以清楚表達其抽像思緒的人,成功的機會也相對地越大。

雖然他們的思緒往往可以自由地在抽像的天地中悠遊,但是以事業為導向的他們,卻會以非常實際的方式表達想法,希望因此而能爭取到身邊群眾的支持和參與。然而,不管是否參與實際的活動,他們給人的印像卻是十分超然脫俗的。毫無疑問地,3月日出生的人,通常會把私人生活和公事劃分得相當清楚。

事實上,3月7日出生的人往往非常寂寞,但又很難讓外人進入他們的世界裡。那些想穿透城牆去跟他們做朋友的人,必須非常有耐心,也要能夠諒解他們,最重要的是不能對他們太過苛求。這天出生的人並非吝於付出,相反地,他們可以說是非常慷慨,隻是一旦處在壓力下就不可能會有很好的表現罷了。如果一旦強迫他們,那麼他們惟一的反應便是退縮,不管在心中的想法或實質的表現上都一樣。

受到批評或攻擊時,3月7日出生的人大多隻能做出少許的反應就縮回自己安全的殼裡。同時他們也會很快地就學習到誰了解他們、誰接納他們;誰可以信任、誰不能信任。他們有點神秘佤佤的,對喜愛的人也不夠坦白,常把很多期盼藏在心中不敢說出來。但是對於他們認為值得付出的人,卻願意付出所有的時間和財力。

在這一天出生的人對於他人的基本需求會很強烈地感同身受,因此,可能的話他們會將這類的事排在第一優先。雖然他們很關心社會,卻不是個很喜歡交際應酬的人。所以他們很可能頂多隻有一、兩上好朋友就感到足夠了。

3月7日出生的朋友所面臨到的問題,包括沒有活力、缺乏社交生活、容易感到恐懼和不夠穩定,並且對自己的人生目標感到旁徨。然而隻要他們能拿定主意,全心全意地投入有意義的事物中,那麼,無論在哪方面,他們都可以非常成功。除此之外他們更可利用他們的工作成就引起他人的注目,使自己更能打入社交圈。

3月7日出生的人,必須常把自己的想法、感受和家人、朋友或社會分享。除了在工作上投入他特有的關懷,也應該對自己的個人生活多作一些改變。無論他們遇不遇得到合適的對像一起分享人生,建立堅實的人際關繫、多與人互動情感,對他們而言都是需要學習的重要課題。

建議
站穩立場,強化自己的抽像概念,並設法與他人溝通。不要陷於自我批評的泥沼。允許別人進入你的小世界。多多展現你真實的自我。
haiz its already 9.17pm now and i'm still in the office waiting for the casting details frm one of my client. sianz ah..and almost everyone has left the office. i like the office when its quiet =) cuz its like when we just moved over and very relaxing place for you to concentrate on working.

even though i met alex last night - juz for awhile only! it always seem to be like time flies past so quickly without even realising it. and i didn't get to take pics with him again! eewwww..guess i'll have to wait till the next time again. i hope to see him soon again =)

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